Find the screen that matches what you saw.
Help
Use UYB with less guessing.
Quick answers for invites, writing, reveals, notifications, and safety boundaries.
Help receipt
Help receipt.
Use this page to find the next screen without explaining the whole story. The safest help starts with status, route, and device details.
You can say where you got stuck without quoting private writing.
Start with Today, Private Write, Updates, Safety, or Feedback.
Leave out answers, drafts, reveal text, invite links, passwords, and codes.
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This help receipt is navigation guidance only. It does not collect private journal answers, drafts, reveal text, solo notes, vent notes, invite links, passwords, one-time codes, account secrets, or safety crisis details.
Choose one
I am here because...
Pick the sentence that sounds closest. UYB will send you to one useful next step, not a lecture.
Someone shared UYB with meJoin or find the shared journal.
Start at Today, then open the invite or journal that needs your side.
Find my next stepI need to get words outWrite privately before sharing.Use Private Write when the thought is still messy and should stay only with you.
Open Private WriteI do not understand the flowSee what each screen is for.Use the screen map when the app feels busy or you are not sure where the question went.
Open screen mapSomething feels wrongChoose support or safety.Use Safety for danger. Use Support for product, account, privacy, or unclear-flow help.
Choose help pathone next stepkid-clear wordingadult-safe boundariesno private text needed
This router helps you choose a screen. It does not read, collect, review, score, send, or publish private journal answers, drafts, reveal text, solo notes, vent notes, invite links, passwords, or codes.
Answer shortcuts
Tap the answer you need.
Use these shortcuts when you know the worry but do not know the right screen. Each one jumps to a plain answer or a safe route.
Only a linkI made a journal and only see a share link.Read link answerQuestionWhy did this question appear?See the flowWaitingDo I wait for them before I can write?Read write-first answerTheir sideWhere do I see the other person's journal?Read reveal answerLost wordsWhat happens if the page closes?Read draft answerUnsafeWhat if this does not feel safe?Open Safety
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Answer shortcuts are navigation only. They do not collect private answers, drafts, reveal text, solo notes, invite links, passwords, one-time codes, account secrets, or safety crisis details.
Invite map
Which side are you on?
Use this when the link, prompt, or waiting state feels unclear. Your next step depends on whether you made the journal or received the invite.
creator can write firstrecipient chooses a sideno answer text in linksreveal waits for both
This map is only guidance. It does not send invites, expose drafts, reveal answers, notify the other person, or change the locked reveal.
First visit
Tell UYB what happened.
If the first visit feels unclear, choose the sentence that matches what you saw. You can write, wait, share, or pause without guessing.
I only saw a linkThe journal exists.
Open Today to start your side. You can share the link now, later, or after you save your first answer.
Open TodayA question appearedAnswer privately first.The question comes from the journal path. One honest sentence is enough, and drafts stay private.
Preview question logicI am waitingWaiting is allowed.Your side can stay saved while the other person joins, writes, or decides they need more time.
Read waiting guideI need to think firstUse Private Write.Sort the raw version without inviting anyone. Private Write never opens inside shared reveals.
Write privatelyHelp pages never ask for private answers, drafts, reveal text, invite links, or another person's writing.
Stuck right now
If you are stuck right now, do this first.
Use the smallest safe check. You do not need to explain the whole relationship, paste private writing, or know the perfect screen name.
1Look for the status word.
Draft, saved, waiting, reveal, invite, or update usually tells you what kind of moment this is.
Open Today2Choose the right space.Use Today for next action, Journals for history, Updates for status, and Private Write when you need room.
Open Journals3Pause if it feels too big.Use Safety before writing more if someone may be hurt, controlled, threatened, pressured, or unsafe.
Open Safetystatus onlyno private answers neededno invite links neededsafe to pause
This reset is navigation help only. It does not read, collect, score, summarize, send, or review private journal answers, drafts, reveal text, solo notes, vent notes, invite links, passwords, or codes.
Pause and return
What happens if you pause?
UYB is made for phone interruptions, hard feelings, and people who need to stop before they finish. Use this map when you leave, reload, lose connection, or just need time.
While writingDrafts stay private.
Device drafts help you return to unfinished words without notifying the other person.
Understand draftsAfter savingSaved means your side is held.A saved answer, reflection, solo note, or vent can wait. It does not become a public message.
Open TodayWhile waitingWaiting is allowed.A paired journal can stay locked until both people save. You do not have to push for a faster answer.
Read waiting guidePrivate writingSolo and Vent stay separate.Private notes do not appear in shared reveals unless you choose a calmer new journal path.
Write privatelySafetySafety comes before finishing.If someone may be hurt, threatened, controlled, or unsafe, pause UYB and use real-world help.
Open Safetydrafts stay privatesaved work can waitwaiting is allowedprivate writing stays separatesafety comes first
This pause map explains recovery only. It does not read private writing, send reminders, expose drafts, unlock reveals, copy solo notes, or replace real-world safety help.
Start here.
- Create or join a journal.Use a private invite link for one relationship or family pair.
- Answer one guided question.Both sides answer privately before the reveal opens.
- Read slowly.The reveal is for understanding first, not instant replies.
- Continue when useful.Start another question, save a reflection, or pause.
Choose what is confusing right now.
Start with the closest situation. Each path points to the screen that can actually help.
I need to startCreate one private journal
Choose one person, pick the kind of help, then write before or after you share.
Create journalI need spaceWrite privately firstUse Private Write when you need to sort thoughts without sending them to anyone.
Open Private WriteI am waitingCheck Today or updatesToday shows drafts, waiting journals, ready reveals, and private notifications.
Go to TodayI missed somethingCheck notification rulesSee what UYB can notify about, what stays private, and how to send a test update.
Read notificationsThis may be unsafePause and use real helpUYB is not emergency support. Use safety guidance when someone may be at risk.
Safety helpThe app felt unclearSend product feedbackTell us where the flow broke without sharing private journal text.
Share feedbackWhen you feel lost
Use this three-step reset.
UYB works best when people can tell which space they are in before they write, wait, or share.
- Find your spaceUse Today for current action, Journals for history, and Private Write for solo notes.
- Check the statusLook for Draft saved, Side saved, Waiting, or Reveal open before deciding what to do.
- Use the boundaryIf the moment feels unsafe, stop the journal flow and use real-world help.
Screen map
Know which screen you are on.
Use this map when the app feels busy. Each screen has one job and one safest next step.
TodayYour private command center
Shows the next useful action, drafts, waiting journals, ready reveals, updates, and quick return paths.
Open TodayJournal homeOne relationship spaceShows invite status, people in the journal, the current question, and past questions for this journal only.
Find a journalQuestion roomWrite or check statusUse this room to answer, save a draft, wait, or open a reveal when both sides are saved.
See question flowPrivate WriteThink without sharingUse Solo or Vent when you need to write before deciding whether any part belongs in a shared journal.
Write privatelyUpdatesStatus onlyShows joins, questions, waits, reveals, and safe reminder history without private entry text.
Review updatesProfileYour side settingsControls tone, support mode, reminders, avatar, focus, and private guidance without creating a public profile.
Open ProfileSafetyUse real support when neededUse Safety before writing or sharing if someone may be in danger, threatened, pressured, or unsafe.
Open Safetyone screen, one jobprivate writing stays privatehelp never asks for answersuse safety before sharing
This map explains navigation only. It does not ask for private journal answers, drafts, reveal text, solo notes, invite links, passwords, one-time codes, or account secrets.
Plain words
Words UYB uses.
Use this mini glossary when a screen uses a word that sounds bigger than it needs to. These words describe app states, not judgments about anyone.
It holds the invite, questions, saved sides, waiting state, and reveals for that one connection.
Create one journalBoth people answer the same prompt privately before a reveal can open.
Preview questionsA draft lets you leave, come back, and finish without notifying the other person.
Write privatelyWaiting is not a failure. It means UYB is protecting the reveal until both sides are ready.
Understand waitingA reveal opens only after both people save. It is for reading first, not instant replies.
Read reveal guideSolo and Vent spaces stay outside shared reveals unless you intentionally start a new journal from a calmer thought.
Open Private WriteUpdates can tell you what changed without quoting answers, drafts, reveals, solo notes, or invite links.
Understand updatesProfile changes tone, support mode, reminders, avatar, and focus without making a public page.
Open ProfileLostStart with the word you saw.
Find the word on this card, then tap its action. You do not have to understand every screen first.
Use screen mapFirst journalUse Journal, Question, Waiting, Reveal.Those four words are the shared path. Create a journal, answer one question, wait safely, then read together.
Start shared pathPrivate firstUse Draft or Private Write.Those words mean nothing is sent. Start there when you need room before sharing anything.
Write privatelyplain wordsone next actionstatus onlyno private answersno scores
This glossary explains UYB words only. It does not read, collect, summarize, send, score, or review private journal answers, drafts, reveal text, solo notes, invite links, passwords, or account secrets.
Find your path
Find the screen that matches the problem.
Pick the closest sentence. UYB should never need private journal text to point you to the right place.
I cannot find a journalOpen Journals
Use Journals when you need active questions, previous journeys, waiting reveals, or history.
Open JournalsI only see a linkOpen TodayThe invite link is not the question. Today shows what is ready for your side next.
Go to TodayI need to write firstUse Private WriteSort the raw version before sharing. Solo writing stays outside shared reveals.
Write privatelyI do not know if they answeredCheck UpdatesUpdates can show saved sides, ready reveals, reminders, and notification settings.
Check UpdatesThis may be unsafePause UYBUse real-world support if anyone may be hurt, controlled, pressured, or in danger.
Safety guidanceDo not paste private answers, reveal text, drafts, or another person's writing into help, feedback, or public Q&A.
Next step
What should I do next?
Use the closest moment. UYB is designed so you can write, wait, reveal, or pause without needing to figure out the whole app at once.
I only see a linkOpen the journal and start your side.
The link means the journal exists. You can write before sharing, or copy the link when the moment feels right.
Go to TodayThe question surprised meRead why it appeared.Each question comes from the journal path. You can answer one sentence, save a draft, or pause.
Preview questionsI am waitingLet the journal wait without pushing.Waiting is part of consent. Your side can stay saved while the other person chooses when to join or write.
Read waiting guideA reveal is openRead first, reply later.The reveal is for understanding, not a live argument. Save a private reflection before deciding what to say.
Read reveal guideThese paths never ask you to paste private journal answers into public help or feedback.
What happens after you create a journal?
- The journal is created.You get a private invite link. That link is how the other person joins.
- You can write first.You do not have to wait for them to join before starting your side.
- The reveal stays locked.No one reads the other side until both people save an answer.
- History stays in UYB.Past questions live in the journal and journey history after they start.
Common questions.
Do both people have to answer before a reveal opens?
Yes. In a paired journal, both people answer the same question privately before the reveal opens.
Can I write before the other person joins?
Yes. You can start your side first, save it, and share the invite link when you are ready.
Can I use UYB if I am not ready to share with anyone?
Yes. Use Private Write to get thoughts out first. Solo notes stay outside shared journal reveals.
Where do I see the other person's journal?
UYB does not show a separate copy of their journal. You see shared reveals only after both people save answers to the same question.
Can the other person see my draft?
No. Drafts and private reflections are for your side only. Reveals open only after both saved answers exist.
What happens if I lose connection or close the page?
UYB saves device drafts while you write and can save account-backed drafts for signed-in writing rooms.
Is UYB therapy or emergency support?
No. UYB is a private guided journaling product. It is not therapy, diagnosis, crisis monitoring, or emergency support.
Still confused?
Send product feedback without exposing private journal text.